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Gurbax and Balbir Dhesi-Proud Parents of Amarveer Singh Dhesi

Ancy Mendonza Darpan, 29 Jan, 2025 05:48 PM
  • Gurbax and Balbir Dhesi-Proud Parents of Amarveer Singh Dhesi

" Wrestling isn’t just a sport in our family—it’s a legacy. Watching Amar carry it forward with humility and determination makes us incredibly proud."- Balbir Dhesi

Gurbax and Balbir Dhesi
Parents of Amarveer Singh Dhesi

Amarveer Singh Dhesi, better known as Amar Dhesi, has made waves in the world of wrestling, representing Canada in the men’s 125 kg freestyle wrestling event at the 2024 Summer Olympics and claiming gold in the same category at the 2022 Commonwealth Games. Behind Amar’s remarkable journey is the steadfast support and dedication of his parents, Balbir and Gurbax Dhesi.

Balbir immigrated to Canada in 1976 with a vision that extended beyond his personal success. The same year, he founded the Khalsa Wrestling Club in Surrey, sowing the seeds for a wrestling dynasty that has spanned generations. Wrestling wasn’t just a sport for the Dhesi family—it was a legacy. Amar grew up in an environment where wrestling was part of everyday life. “I took him to the club when he was still in diapers,” Balbir shares. “He was never a stranger to the mat because he grew up watching his family wrestle.”

For Balbir, Amar’s journey is a continuation of a family tradition that started with his father and included his elder son, a Youth Olympian. Amar’s natural talent was evident early on, but it was his own relentless discipline and the guidance of his family that helped him achieve greatness. “Both of my sons would wake up at 5 AM to train before school, then return to the club for practice after classes,” Balbir recalls.

Gurbax, the pillar of emotional support, emphasizes the role of community in their journey. “Our joint family and close-knit group of wrestling friends gave us the strength to navigate this path with ease,” she explains. While the journey required sacrifices, such as turning down certain work opportunities and retiring early, Balbir and Gurbax never wavered in their commitment to their sons.

Their parenting philosophy is rooted in trust, communication, and balance. “We made sure to let them experience wins and losses equally. That’s how you grow—by managing your emotions and learning from every experience,” Balbir shares, reflecting his commitment to raising mentally and physically strong sports kids,, ready to face any challenge that might come their way.

Q&A 

1. How did you ensure that your child’s mental health is prioritized, especially in the high-pressure world of sports?

We surrounded Amar with a community of support—family, friends, and fellow wrestlers. Practicing alongside his brother and cousins kept him grounded, and we’ve always been open about sharing challenges and triumphs as a family.

2. What has been your biggest success as a parent in this journey?

Seeing both of our sons grow into respectful, hardworking individuals who honor their family and community. Amar’s success on the mat is a bonus.

3. What advice would you give other parents raising young athletes?

Spend time with your kids. Be present for their practices and competitions and show genuine interest in their passions. Encourage them to follow their interests and provide everything they need to succeed.

4. What’s a message you’d like to share with young athletes pursuing their dreams?

Hard work is the key—whether in sports or life. Stay disciplined, respect your community, and always strive to be a good person. Success will follow.

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