Close X
Saturday, September 21, 2024
ADVT 
National

Woman's Obituary Says No Flowers, Asks For Letters To Politicians Instead

Darpan News Desk The Canadian Press, 09 Mar, 2016 11:07 AM
    WINNIPEG — An 89-year-old Winnipeg diabetic who had recently been diagnosed with stage four breast cancer has chosen to end her life by refusing to take her insulin.
     
    And in lieu of flowers, her family is asking people to write politicians to show support for broadly defined right-to-die legislation, and to urge legislators to act soon.
     
    According to an obituary published in the Winnipeg Free Press, Jess Bowness died March 3 from complications related to her decision to refuse insulin.
     
    In the obituary, her family says they supported "her gutsy decision to die on her own terms."
     
    They also criticized "the legal and medical vacuum that still exists around the right to die," noting her death "took longer than it needed to" and there was "more discomfort and distress than needed to be."
     
    The Supreme Court of Canada struck down a ban on physician-assisted dying last year but gave the new Liberal federal government until June 6 to come up with replacement legislation.
     
    In the obituary, Bowness's relatives wrote of her flamboyant personality and love of shocking people or making them laugh.
     
    However, with diabetes, heart disease, arthritis, quadruple bypass surgery, neuropathy, memory loss and the cancer, "she'd had enough. There wasn't enough laughter anymore."
     
    Bowness was born in Singapore, where she worked as a nurse during the Japanese occupation of the city-state during the Second World War.
     
    She, her husband and children emigrated to Canada in 1965 and her husband, Michael, who died in 1999, became a professor of biochemistry at the University of Manitoba.
     
    Her obituary describes her as "stylish to the point of eccentricity," noting an outfit she wore once to an event to raise money for a son's terminally ill friend: "Silver knee-high platform leather boots, sparkly silver pants that tied at the knee, black-and-white striped blouse ... and lots of silver snake jewellery, bracelets and necklaces, some wrapped into her hair."
     
    The obituary recalls that sometimes, out of boredom, she would answer her phone with "city morgue."

    MORE National ARTICLES

    Manitoba NDP Demand Liberals Drop Candidate Over Social Media Comments

    Manitoba NDP Demand Liberals Drop Candidate Over Social Media Comments
    Manitoba New Democrats say a Liberal candidate in the upcoming election should be dropped because of his social media comments.

    Manitoba NDP Demand Liberals Drop Candidate Over Social Media Comments

    Women Advised To Wait 2 Months To Get Pregnant After Travel To Zika Hotspots

    Women Advised To Wait 2 Months To Get Pregnant After Travel To Zika Hotspots
    The mosquito-borne virus has been potentially linked in Brazil to thousands of cases of newborns with abnormally small heads. It's believed mothers may have been infected during pregnancy

    Women Advised To Wait 2 Months To Get Pregnant After Travel To Zika Hotspots

    Charges Laid In Vancouver After Suspect Allegedly Tries To Throw Woman Off Pier

    Charges Laid In Vancouver After Suspect Allegedly Tries To Throw Woman Off Pier
    Police say they were called to the Coal Harbour waterfront, near Canada Place, at about 10 p.m. Monday after reports a young woman was trying to throw a 31-year-old woman off the pier and into the water below.

    Charges Laid In Vancouver After Suspect Allegedly Tries To Throw Woman Off Pier

    Canadian Triathlete Sweetland Changes Things Up Ahead Of Final Olympic Push

    Canadian Triathlete Sweetland Changes Things Up Ahead Of Final Olympic Push
    Like most triathletes, she usually spends the winter in warm climates preparing for the gruelling season ahead — not beside snow-covered British Columbia mountains.

    Canadian Triathlete Sweetland Changes Things Up Ahead Of Final Olympic Push

    Victims Of 'Internet Black Widow' Concerned Over Her Release In Nova Scotia

    Victims Of 'Internet Black Widow' Concerned Over Her Release In Nova Scotia
    Two men preyed upon by an elderly woman known as the "Internet Black Widow" say they fear for public safety as a Nova Scotia prison prepares to release her onto the street.

    Victims Of 'Internet Black Widow' Concerned Over Her Release In Nova Scotia

    Environment Shouldn't Become Arena For Political Fights: Justin Trudeau

    Environment Shouldn't Become Arena For Political Fights: Justin Trudeau
    Trudeau says politicians may have different views and backgrounds, but they can still come together in the fight against climate change.

    Environment Shouldn't Become Arena For Political Fights: Justin Trudeau