Close X
Wednesday, September 25, 2024
ADVT 
National

Woman's Obituary Says No Flowers, Asks For Letters To Politicians Instead

Darpan News Desk The Canadian Press, 09 Mar, 2016 11:07 AM
    WINNIPEG — An 89-year-old Winnipeg diabetic who had recently been diagnosed with stage four breast cancer has chosen to end her life by refusing to take her insulin.
     
    And in lieu of flowers, her family is asking people to write politicians to show support for broadly defined right-to-die legislation, and to urge legislators to act soon.
     
    According to an obituary published in the Winnipeg Free Press, Jess Bowness died March 3 from complications related to her decision to refuse insulin.
     
    In the obituary, her family says they supported "her gutsy decision to die on her own terms."
     
    They also criticized "the legal and medical vacuum that still exists around the right to die," noting her death "took longer than it needed to" and there was "more discomfort and distress than needed to be."
     
    The Supreme Court of Canada struck down a ban on physician-assisted dying last year but gave the new Liberal federal government until June 6 to come up with replacement legislation.
     
    In the obituary, Bowness's relatives wrote of her flamboyant personality and love of shocking people or making them laugh.
     
    However, with diabetes, heart disease, arthritis, quadruple bypass surgery, neuropathy, memory loss and the cancer, "she'd had enough. There wasn't enough laughter anymore."
     
    Bowness was born in Singapore, where she worked as a nurse during the Japanese occupation of the city-state during the Second World War.
     
    She, her husband and children emigrated to Canada in 1965 and her husband, Michael, who died in 1999, became a professor of biochemistry at the University of Manitoba.
     
    Her obituary describes her as "stylish to the point of eccentricity," noting an outfit she wore once to an event to raise money for a son's terminally ill friend: "Silver knee-high platform leather boots, sparkly silver pants that tied at the knee, black-and-white striped blouse ... and lots of silver snake jewellery, bracelets and necklaces, some wrapped into her hair."
     
    The obituary recalls that sometimes, out of boredom, she would answer her phone with "city morgue."

    MORE National ARTICLES

    Kurdi Family Gets A Canadian Welcome With Invite To UBC Varsity Hockey Game

    Kurdi Family Gets A Canadian Welcome With Invite To UBC Varsity Hockey Game
    Tima Kurdi and her extended family have been invited to attend a varsity men's hockey game Friday night at the University of British Columbia.

    Kurdi Family Gets A Canadian Welcome With Invite To UBC Varsity Hockey Game

    Regina Woman Accused In Death Of Girl Says She Ate So Much She Threw Up

    Regina Woman Accused In Death Of Girl Says She Ate So Much She Threw Up
    Tammy Goforth and her husband Kevin are both charged with second-degree murder in the death of the older girl and causing bodily harm to the two-year-old.

    Regina Woman Accused In Death Of Girl Says She Ate So Much She Threw Up

    Squirrel Knocks Out Power For 5,400 Customers In Halifax Neighbourhood

    Squirrel Knocks Out Power For 5,400 Customers In Halifax Neighbourhood
      Nova Scotia Power spokeswoman Bev Ware says a squirrel scaled a transformer in a substation in the Hammonds Plains area just before 5 p.m. Thursday.

    Squirrel Knocks Out Power For 5,400 Customers In Halifax Neighbourhood

    Ontario Recruits Jail Guards Amid What Critics Call A Crisis In Corrections

    Ontario Recruits Jail Guards Amid What Critics Call A Crisis In Corrections
    TORONTO — Ontario is recruiting 180 new correctional officers, in the midst of what critics are calling a crisis in corrections.

    Ontario Recruits Jail Guards Amid What Critics Call A Crisis In Corrections

    New Bus Service For Ferry Passengers As Vancouver-To-Victoria Line Changes Hands

    New Bus Service For Ferry Passengers As Vancouver-To-Victoria Line Changes Hands
    BC Ferries says that as of Feb. 1, The Wilson's Group will operate regularly scheduled service via the Tsawwassen-Swartz Bay route on three sailings each day.

    New Bus Service For Ferry Passengers As Vancouver-To-Victoria Line Changes Hands

    Quebec Sweating Death From 2011: Three People Getting Jail Time

    Quebec Sweating Death From 2011: Three People Getting Jail Time
    Chantal Lavigne was rushed to hospital in serious condition in July 2011 along with another woman who was suffering from serious vomiting at the farmhouse spa.

    Quebec Sweating Death From 2011: Three People Getting Jail Time