Close X
Sunday, November 24, 2024
ADVT 
Life

Don't mix sexual fantasies with true love life

Darpan News Desk IANS, 16 Sep, 2014 08:43 AM
    Having sexual fantasies with your partner is not all that bad but people with high levels of psychopathic traits lean towards non-romantic sexual fantasies with anonymous and uncommitted partners that may harm their real sex life.
     
    According to researchers, psychopathic sexual behaviour arises owing to a preference for sexual activity outside a loving, committed relationship rather than only an inability to form such relationships.
     
    Most people have sexual fantasies and that is quite healthy and normal.
     
    "However, people with higher levels of psychopathic traits are more likely to report having actually engaged in those fantasised behaviours, especially when the behaviours were not within the context of established romantic relationships," explained Dr Beth A. Visser from the Trent University, Ottawa in Canada.
     
    To reach this conclusion, authors performed two studies.
     
    In the first study, they rated content themes in the fantasy narratives of 195 men and women recruited at a Canadian university.
     
    In the second study, they administered a sexual fantasy questionnaire to 355 Canadian undergraduate students.
     
    The idea was to examine the relations between psychopathic traits and sexual fantasy content.
     
    "That is, are individuals with high levels of psychopathic traits more or less likely than other individuals to fantasize about certain fantasy content? Specifically, at higher levels of psychopathy, does partner variety take precedence over emotional connection in sexual fantasies?" asked Dr. Visser.
     
    Furthermore, they sought to understand whether psychopathy moderated the relations between sexual fantasy and sexual behaviour.
     
    "That is, are individuals with higher levels of psychopathic traits more likely to engage in the sexual activities about which they fantasise, particularly when those fantasies are deviant or outside social norms?" the authors deliberated.
     
    They found that individuals with deviant sexual preferences and normal levels of empathy, kindness and self-control have many strategies for satisfying their needs, including negotiation, compromise, and restraint.
     
    "However, individuals with high levels of psychopathic traits might turn to sexually aggressive strategies to attain gratification," Dr. Visser noted.
     
    The research paper appeared in the Journal of Personality.

    MORE Life ARTICLES

    Do you lose happiness over friends' better sex life

    Do you lose happiness over friends' better sex life
    Do you feel less happy when you learn that your friend is more sexually active than you and enjoying a better sex life? Do not go by what he/she...

    Do you lose happiness over friends' better sex life

    A prescription to enjoy super 'medical marriage'

    A prescription to enjoy super 'medical marriage'
    Are you married to a doctor and not been able to achieve fulfillment both at home and at work? Don't worry as researchers have carefully...

    A prescription to enjoy super 'medical marriage'

    Want to be happy? Cut down on consumption

    Want to be happy? Cut down on consumption
    Are you working extra hard to earn more money with the hope that more spending power would make you happier? Think again!

    Want to be happy? Cut down on consumption

    Music training makes kids better learners

    Music training makes kids better learners
    Providing your kids with the opportunity to learn a musical instrument or to sing strengthens their reading and language skills, says a study....

    Music training makes kids better learners

    Diversity at workplace seen differently

    Diversity at workplace seen differently
    People's views about diversity of an organisation or team depends on whether or not members of their own race are included, says a study....

    Diversity at workplace seen differently

    Are you a neurotic? Check your Facebook photo use

    Are you a neurotic? Check your Facebook photo use
    If you have the habit of uploading more photos on Facebook to feel noticed and earn more "likes", it is more likely that you may be a "neurotic" than an extrovert....

    Are you a neurotic? Check your Facebook photo use