Close X
Saturday, November 23, 2024
ADVT 
Life

Break Free From Your Mental Prison Embracing the Wisdom of Bandi Chorh Divas

Naina Grewal Darpan, 09 Nov, 2023 04:29 PM
  • Break Free From Your Mental Prison Embracing the Wisdom of Bandi Chorh Divas

In the grand tapestry of life, we often find ourselves entangled in self-imposed mental prisons, limiting our own potential and robbing ourselves of the joys that human existence has to offer. This metaphorical imprisonment finds a powerful parallel in the historical event of Bandi Chorh Divas, which marks the release of Guru Hargobind Ji and 52 other princes from the literal confinement of Gwalior Fort. On this day, we draw inspiration from the Guru's liberation and the need to liberate ourselves from the mental shackles that bind us.

Bandi Chorh Divas, also known as Diwali for Sikhs, is a significant Sikh festival celebrated to honor Guru Hargobind Ji's release from imprisonment. In 1619, Guru Hargobind Ji refused to leave Gwalior Fort without the release of 52 Rajput kings who were unjustly imprisoned there. He negotiated their release, emphasizing the importance of standing up for the oppressed. This event signifies the triumph of righteousness over tyranny and the importance of freedom and justice.

Just as Guru Hargobind Ji and the other princes were physically confined, in today’s world, we often confine ourselves mentally. These self-imposed mental prisons manifest in various ways. We doubt our abilities, fear failure, and hesitate to pursue our dreams. We trap ourselves in vicious cycles of negative thinking and self-criticism, conveniently coupled with fear of judgment. Ironically, these self-imposed limitations can be more constraining than any physical prison.

Self-doubt is a significant barrier to growth, as we question our abilities, worthiness, and potential. The key lies in embracing self-confidence. It's crucial to recognize that self-doubt is a mental construct and often not rooted in realism. By challenging and reframing our self-perceptions, we can reach our full potential in multiple realms of life - be it personal, professional, or spiritual.

As for the fear of failure, that is also merely a cell in our mental prison. We hesitate to pursue our dreams because we're afraid of falling short. However, historical milestones of commitment to justice and righteousness serve as a reminder that the pursuit of a just cause is worth the effort, regardless of the potential hurdles. Just as we advocate so fiercely for others, we must also stand up for ourselves and practice self-compassion. Instead of being overly critical, we should treat ourselves with kindness, forgiving our imperfections and allowing ourselves to grow.

Upon his release from Gwalior fort during the reign of Jahangir, Guru Hargobind Ji arrived in Amritsar on the eve of Diwali. The Golden Temple and the entire city were adorned with brilliant illuminations to mark the joyous return of their Guru. Since then, Diwali has been celebrated in Amritsar - and around the world - with tremendous enthusiasm, grandeur, and a deep sense of religious devotion. Similarly, we must savor life's moments, unburdened by mental constraints. Instead of dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, we can learn to find joy in the present moment and the beauty of our being.

Beautifully encapsulating many lessons, Bandi Chorh Divas goes deeper than just a historical moment in time; it is a powerful reminder to stand up for what is right and, upon deeper introspection, to liberate ourselves from the mental prisons we construct. Only then can we set ourselves on a journey toward personal freedom. Let us bow with respect to the valor of Guru Hargobind Ji and let this festival be a symbol of our own liberation from the limitations of the mind!

MORE Life ARTICLES

Plant Power: Unexpected Health Benefits of Gardening

Plant Power: Unexpected Health Benefits of Gardening
Whether you have a small patio planter, a backyard vegetable garden, or a plot in a community garden, embrace your green thumb and start gardening today!

Plant Power: Unexpected Health Benefits of Gardening

DR. BAL PAWA: Protect Your Mental Health & Well-being

DR. BAL PAWA: Protect Your Mental Health & Well-being
The number of people suffering from anxiety, loneliness and depression has spiked amidst COVID-19, and with lockdowns around the world, people’s mental health has been severely impacted. 

DR. BAL PAWA: Protect Your Mental Health & Well-being

11 year old Surrey girl Sia Sidhu winner of Top 25 under 25 award

11 year old Surrey girl Sia Sidhu winner of Top 25 under 25 award
A very proud moment for the entire South Asian community as an 11 year old girl is the youngest winner of the presitigious Surrey's Top 25 Under 25 award. 

11 year old Surrey girl Sia Sidhu winner of Top 25 under 25 award

VIRUS DIARY: A friend dies but leaves something to hold onto

VIRUS DIARY: A friend dies but leaves something to hold onto
My friend Greg died.I am not alone in losing a friend to COVID-19. Some 46,000 people in this country have died, as have thousands more around the world.

VIRUS DIARY: A friend dies but leaves something to hold onto

Buying a bike without breaking the bank

Buying a bike without breaking the bank
Like many Canadians, Lindsay Bliek and her children have spent a lot of time cycling recreationally under lockdown. In fact, the Calgary-based cycling blogger recently started plotting new routes to avoid crowds on her usual ones.

Buying a bike without breaking the bank

Meet the Arora Family

Meet the Arora Family
I am addressing our Punjabi community which holds such a strong influence and makes you feel really proud of being part of the community

Meet the Arora Family