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'RAPE SCHEDULE': Delhi Woman's Moving Poem Is Really Moving

Darpan News Desk IANS, 14 Aug, 2017 01:48 PM

    Even after worldwide protests condemning the brutal gangrape of ‘Nirbhaya’ in 2012, women continue to feel unsafe and alienated in Delhi. Highlighting this, Bhavna Bhasin, a Facebook user from New Delhi, shared a stirring poem titled ‘Rape Schedule’, which subsequently went viral.

     

    The poem is a moving account of a girl, who knows a time-bomb is ticking away.

     

    As darkness sets in, even as she is getting to know a person and enjoying his company, she is constantly reminded of the curfew she is supposed to stick to, the notifications from five missed calls blinking on her phone and her parents’ misplaced anger.

     

    All that she has to do is to stick to a schedule that will make sure she reaches home ‘unraped’.

     

    ‘Rape schedule

     

    I am on a rape schedule

     

    It’s after 10,

     

    the city is receding,

     

    street lights flickering,

     

    A murmur of ‘go home’

     

    is in the air,

     

    Audible only

     

    to my ear .

     

    We had just started talking,

     

    I was telling him why I chose

     

    writing over practicing law,

     

    ‘That’s a bold move’ , he said

     

    I quickly shut the phone screen

     

    that said 5 missed calls

     

    Now I’m not allowed contingencies

     

    you see

     

    If I said I would be back by 11

     

    I should have been in bed by 10

     

    Or planned all life events before 3

     

    Because I am on a rape schedule

     

    I know this could be a wonderful conversation, and we have only

     

    just begun

     

    But I’m tracing the map,

     

    it’s forty minutes to home

     

    Every passing second,

     

    another potential rapist gets

     

    added to the list of ways

     

    in which a consequential,

     

    highly avoidable fate is met

     

    after a night of fun

     

    So I have to go,

     

    keep the shoe,

     

    keep my share of the night sky too

     

    Because I am on a rape schedule

     

    My parents have already imagined

     

    every possible horrendous thing that

     

    could happen to me

     

    Their anger is misplaced,

     

    their logic faulty,

     

    But can I complain

     

    if in theory they believe in my freedom

     

    But really just act out of concern for me?

     

    I should be grateful for the sunny patch

     

    that I’m allowed

     

    For men who feel responsible for me

     

    even though I’m better endowed

     

    For

     

    everyday that I follow the schedule

     

    and

     

    come

     

    home

     

    unraped.’

     
     

    Rape schedule I am on a rape schedule It's after 10, the city is receding, street lights flickering, A murmur of '...

    Posted by Bhavna Bhasin on Tuesday, 8 August 2017

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