Close X
Thursday, December 12, 2024
ADVT 
Bollywood

Show Me Remorse, I Will Forgive You: Vinta Nanda To Alok Nath

IANS, 22 Nov, 2018 01:56 PM
    With an FIR for rape lodged against actor Alok Nath, writer-director Vinta Nanda says she is "willing to forgive" but "show some remorse, repentance", so she knows he will never violate another woman again.
     
     
    Vinta is still willing to forgive Alok if he apologises. "I was never in this for revenge. I want correction, not revenge. Show some remorse, show some sign of repentance.
     
     
    "Let me know that no other woman would be violated by you the way I was. All I see right now is an attitude of defiance and shamelessness. If that's the way it is going to be, then I'll see my fight for justice to the end."
     
     
    About taking the battle legal, she said: "Actually the FIR was lodged on Tuesday. The media got wind of it on Wednesday morning and all hell broke loose. And I mean that in a good way.
     
     
    "If it wasn't for the media my fight for justice would never have come so far. I am lucky to have such invaluable support from my friends, my family and from the media who have pitched in their trust behind my fight." 
     
     
    "I feel blessed," said Vinta.
     
     
    But is she ready for a long lonely legal battle ahead?
     
     
    "Firstly, it's not a lonely battle. I have my mother, family and several close friends with me. As for the legal battle ahead I am very well armed and equipped. 
     
     
    "Three of the brightest young lawyers of Mumbai -- Dhruti Kapadia, Faranaaz Kharbhari and Kunal Tiwari -- are fighting my case free of cost. They believe in my fight. 
     
     
    "Today I can dare to face a legal battle without fearing the financial burden," the 48-year-old said.
     
     
    She feels what the #MeToo movement has done is awaken the nation's conscience to their responsibilities as citizens.
     
     
    "There is just no room or tolerance for inappropriate behaviour any more," she said, adding that her fight for justice is not her own. 
     
     
    "There are so many women out there who have been raped, molested, harassed, eveteased. 
     
     
    "Men who thought troubling women was their birthright have been forced to reconsider their patriarchal definitions of gender relations.
     
     
    "What seemed 'normal' to them earlier will land them in serious trouble now. And they know it. That's the difference."
     
     
    Vinta is surprised at how Alok Nath refuses to acknowledge the wrong he has done. "He is brazening it out when he should have apologised. Instead he got his wife to speak on his behalf. That is so sad. 
     
     
    "In our society women still feel like standing by their husbands -- no matter how wrong they are -- is their dharma. Men take advantage of this unconditional spousal support," she added.

    MORE Bollywood ARTICLES

    Would Love To See Our Industry Become Cleaner, Respectful Of Women: Rahman On #MeToo

    Would Love To See Our Industry Become Cleaner, Respectful Of Women: Rahman On #MeToo
    Music maestro AR Rahman believes India's #MeToo movement has the power to make the entertainment industry cleaner and respectful of women.

    Would Love To See Our Industry Become Cleaner, Respectful Of Women: Rahman On #MeToo

    Child Abuse Not Taken Seriously By Indian Men: Shweta Pandit

    Singer Shweta Pandit, who has accused veteran music composer Anu Malik of sexual misconduct, says child abuse is not taken seriously by men in the country.

    Child Abuse Not Taken Seriously By Indian Men: Shweta Pandit

    Any Kind Of Abuse Must Not Be Exercised Or Tolerated: Radhika Apte

    Any Kind Of Abuse Must Not Be Exercised Or Tolerated: Radhika Apte
    There are a lot of people in the industry who are trying to come together and find a way of forming a system which is going to be more apt to deal with the abuse or misuse of power within the industry

    Any Kind Of Abuse Must Not Be Exercised Or Tolerated: Radhika Apte

    Huma Qureshi's Friends Call Her 'Kebab Royalty'

    Actress Huma Qureshi says she loves Mumbai, but the city is a "little sad" when it comes to the food scene.

    Huma Qureshi's Friends Call Her 'Kebab Royalty'

    Shammi Kapoor Deserved Title 'Elvis Presley Of India': Shatrughan Sinha

    Veteran actor-politician Shatrughan Sinha remembered late actor Shammi Kapoor on his 87th birth anniversary, saying he truly deserved the title of "Elvis Presley Of India".  

    Shammi Kapoor Deserved Title 'Elvis Presley Of India': Shatrughan Sinha

    FWICE To Issue Show Cause Notice To Alok Nath, Sajid Khan

    The Federation of Western India Cine Employees (FWICE) on Monday said it will issue show cause notices to actor Alok Nath and actor-director Sajid Khan, who have been accused of sexual harassment and violation.

    FWICE To Issue Show Cause Notice To Alok Nath, Sajid Khan